
Sonderland
You are the star of your own show, you write your own story, you conquer your own struggles. You, yes you! And you, and the person next to you. We often forget that while we are creating our own stories, the people passing us by are too. One word changed my entire perspective on life. If you know this word, I hope you practice it, and if you don’t, I’m honored to introduce you to it.Sonder, the realization that each and every person has a unique and complex life, just like yours. No NPCs, side characters, or extras, people with real lives, real feelings, real stories. I’ve created a space to be able to meet new people, learn more about the ones I already know, share a few laughs and tears, and maybe make a few new friends along the way. The word “sonder” is, as Ted Mosby once said, “hauntingly beautiful.” I aim to bring the beauty of everyone’s stories to light. Maybe that way they don’t have to be haunting, but rather - enlightening, inspiring, or even comforting. Despite everyone’s individuality, bringing together everyone’s stories creates the library of human community, join me as I check these stories out. This is Sonderland.
Episodes
24 episodes
Chapter 6 Update
Thank you all for your patience, I hope this brings some clarity to Sonderland, as of late.
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11:40

Influence Finale
Welcome to Sonderland Chapter 5: Episode 4 The FinaleIndia and I sit down in today's very special and very different episode to just lay all the rawness and future plans on the table. As you'll hear very early on in the episode, at the ...
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Season 5
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Episode 4
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3:10:27

Influence with Lauren
Welcome to Sonderland Chapter 5: Episode 3In today’s episode, I get to sit down with Lauren, India’s cousin, to discuss the influences that life has to offer. She, as a self-made business woman, teaches me all about how the idea o...
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Season 5
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Episode 3
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2:53:00

Influence with Richard
Welcome to Chapter 5: Episode 2We travelled to the far-off land of Las Vegas to sit down with Richard to talk all things "influence." In a world where talking about certain topics or holding certain opinions close to the chest out of fe...
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Season 5
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Episode 2
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2:24:36

Influence with Karen
Welcome to Sonderland Chapter 5: Episode 1Returning from our short hiatus, we kick off Chapter 5 with Karen. Influence is all around us, it comes from social media, pop culture, celebrities, and even those around us. During this chapter...
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Season 5
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Episode 1
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2:55:23

Forgiveness with India and Luis
Welcome to the Chapter 4 Finale!In today's episode, I talk about my hiatus, what I learned from this chapter, and what to expect moving forward.
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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2:11:18

Forgiveness with India
Welcome to Chapter 4: Episode 2We are BACK on schedule and have a second guest! On today's episode, we tackle forgiveness from an internal perspective, how hard reconciliation can be, and I get asked some tough unexpected questions that...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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2:45:30

Phone Call #1
BONUS EPISODE!This episode is odd, almost too odd to be a podcast episode. You'd best think of it as a phone call from me to you, but it's like 2 am, and you're on the other side asleep and I just "yap" away.
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33:00

Breaking Down Forgiveness with Luis
Welcome to a Chapter 4 BONUS episode! Sometimes life gets in the way, we're all human. This episode is just me, myself, and you.On today's episode, we look at some articles and answer some questions about forgiveness. Solo epis...
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Season 4
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53:59

Forgiveness with Caro
Welcome to Chapter 4: Episode 1On this new episode in this NEW chapter, Caro and I discuss what forgiveness looks like to us, how we deal with forgiving others without an apology, and how important self forgiveness is to find peace with...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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2:06:43

The Birthday Episode with Lidia
Welcome to Sonderland!As we wait for chapter 4, please enjoy this bonus episode where I got to sit down with a longtime friend, and celebrate our collective birthdays. Lidia has been in my life since middle school, and we haven’t seen e...
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2:41:05

Time with Luis
Welcome to Chapter 3 Episode 4: Time with LuisIn today's episode, we wrap up this chapter by talking about what time means to me, why I chose time as the theme, and if I had accomplished my goal for this chapter. As the past 6 months ha...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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3:21:50

TIme with Daniel
Welcome to Chapter 3 Episode 2: Time with DanielToday marks the halfway point of this chapter! In today's episode, we take a trip back in time to the 70s, take a leap forward in time to see our futures, and talk all about our present li...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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1:35:30

Time with Crystal
Welcome to Chapter 3 Episode 1: Time with CrystalThis episode is all over the place, in the BEST way possible. We tackle the topic of time, what we use our time for, and how time works differently in the realm of love. We are breaking r...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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2:56:51

Regret with Luis
Welcome to Chapter 2 Episode 4: Regret with LuisToday's episode is a bit different and a lot shorter than normal. I discuss my thoughts on regret, the future of Sonderland, and share a letter to Regret itself. This is the conclusion to ...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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16:40

Regret with Victoria
Welcome to Chapter 2 Episode 2: Regret with VictoriaIn 2021, a wonder fell into my lap, rather it was plopped onto my lap by none other than my cousin, Victoria. She had introduced me to "sonder" and I have lived by it ever since. Altho...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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2:07:55

Regret with Carlos and Silva
Welcome to Chapter 2 Episode 2: Regret with Carlos and SilvaToday, we mix things up a bit, as my guest and old friend from an incredibly formative chapter of my life brought along another guest. This episode was a un...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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2:44:25

Regret with Jose
Sonderland Chapter 2 is HERE!! In today's episode, I get to sit down with one of my best friends and have a deep conversation about regret, what it means to us, and what regrets we hold in our hearts, all while sharing a few laughs along the wa...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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2:27:00

Identity with Luis
Welcome to the conclusion of chapter 1: Identity! Creating this show was such a pleasure and as we move onto chapter 2, I take this episode to touch on things that I have learned from my guests throughout these past few weeks. I am normally the...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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2:10:33

Identity with Anthony
Welcome to episode 3 of Sonderland. Today, we continue diving into identity as we begin to round out our first chapter. I had the pleasure of learning more about a new friend, and had the opportunity to bring in personal testimonials to expand ...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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1:55:22

Identity with Crystal
Welcome to episode 2 of chapter 1, Identity. Today, I get to dive into the past with a good friend that I haven't spoken to since high school. When the two of us knew each other then, we were just kids, no idea what kind of stories we'd create ...
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Season 1
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Episode 2
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2:17:58
